Pastor Phil’s 4 tips to love your husband

11 October 2022

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Pastor Phil Ayres, from Kingdomcity, joins Bec and Jeziel every fortnight to share his advice on growing a strong marriage. This week he explained the best way wives can love their husbands.

“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” – Proverbs 31:10-12

This verse paints the picture of a woman whose heart is for her husband. “This shows the design of God in creating this amazing thing called marriage… There should be a passion in your heart to engage one another to become the best you can be.”

Pastor Phil’s 4 tips to love your husband

  1. Believe in him: What you believe about someone determines how you behave toward them. Choose to believe in him for who he is. 
  2. Encourage him: Show your husband that you believe in him with words of affirmation. Proverbs 31:12 says, “She comforts, encourages and does him only good and not evil, all the days of her life.” 
  3. Support him: Men tend to think of the big picture and struggle with the details. Supporting your husband can mean anticipating the gaps and helping him with what he lacks.
  4. Be physically affectionate: For most men, physical affection helps them to feel connected and loved. Bring back the excitement, fun and romance of your relationship.

Did you find Pastor Phil’s advice helpful? Let us know by texting or messaging us on socials. Listen to the full chat below!