Pastor Phil’s 3 tips to become a great husband

Wednesday, September 14, 2022 9:49 am
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Pastor Phil Ayres from Kingdomcity, joined Bec and Jeziel to share his advice on growing a strong marriage. This week he shared 3 tips to be a great husband.

Ephesians 5 gives us the framework of what being a great husband is in God’s eyes. “Husbands go all out in your love for your wives…a love marked by giving not getting. Everything he says and does is designed to bring the best out of her. His words evoke her beauty.


The love that God gave us is not selfish it is sacrificial. Being a great husband involves understanding your wife’s needs and making sacrifices for her.


Understand everything about your wife. What are her needs, personality, love language hopes and desires? If you are struggling to understand your wife’s needs and how to meet them just ask her directly: “How can I love your better? What do you need from me that is going to show you my love and build our relationship?” 


One of the greatest needs of a woman is emotional communication. To talk about things of the heart. This will create a deep bond between you and your wife. 

“God has put the DNA of being a great lover in every man. it simply starts with coming back to our creator and asking God for his help. I believe the starting point to soften my heart to God as I found God he helped me build a relationship with the woman I love.”

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